Real Reason

What I wrote last night was actually intended to talk about relationship. However, something struck my mind and I changed the topic. Besides, I usually suck in relationship. Opppsss, words have power! I am not supposed to say such thing about myself.

Oh yes, coming back to the real issue. Relationship. I listened to Anthony Robbin's motivational speech in compact disc collection this morning when I was ironing my shirt. It was an awesome speech on relationship. Especially when you heard if from one of the best motivational speaker in the world, Mr. Robbins.

Relationship like any other thing, is a living thing. It must be nurtured and must be maintained. Most of us fail to maintain the relationship especially when the courting session has ended. This is due to Law of familiarity. We have become so familiar with the sensational feeling unlike when we first met with our spouse. Remember?

Do you still remember your spouse's clothes when you meet him/her for the first time? Do you still remember how it felt to see your spouse smiled at you, or even wave his/her hand at you? How did you feel at that time?

However, later when the time moves forward, slowly the awesome and overwhelming feeling of love and joy fade away. Mainly because we are so used to that kind of feeling. In plain English, we take for granted for whatever things we have.

In order to maintain the relationship, Anthony Robbin suggest those people who are in relationship must do pre-supposition by asking themselves empowering questions. For example, like what he does in his marriage, consistently asks his wife Becky of 'how lucky he is to meet a lady like her'. This obviously an empowering question. It emphasizes the word 'lucky'. Indirectly, the questions induces a pre-supposition that he is lucky to meet his wife. Remember, words have power! This word will shape the neuro association in his brain that he is lucky to meet Becky. Due to the same reason, the brain will always associate good feeling, love feeling into his emotion, as it serves as an achor to his subconscious mind.

Wow...is it hard to understand?

No, I don't think so. It's really simple, if you listen to his CD. Oh well, I believe he left a message to those who are not in relationship, ie. myself, to write down a clear description of our miss right. A clear description means, full description of positive and negative behaviour of our miss right (please, by all mean, minimize the negative behaviour for our sake!). Law of perpertual transmutation will take care of it if we are specific enough about our 'dream spouse'. Of course, it must be followed with a high degree of intensity in emotion when we write it down. That will help the subconscious mind to get grip on that written message.

For as long as you focus on that, that dream spouse will eventually show up in your life. Not because you are looking for it consciously. It's actually your subsconscious mind who does it.

Allright, I need to go now. The Starbuck is closing now. Oh, before I forget, girls like surprise! So my fellow mates, surprise your girl and you will be surprised, how much they love it (or maybe, hate it!).

Live your life with passion!!