I reviewed some of my previous entries back a few years ago. My thought has morphed into another phase. I'd say, to the next stage. Most of my friends are married now except for a few fellas. And these fellas are also single at this moment.

Today I didn't do much. I just had lunch with client and then went to see a friend. I guess today is the rebuilding the relationship day. Hahahahhaa. I went to see two of my good friends and of course, two different kinds of stories came up except that they both are in the same genre.

One story is about the real deal after getting married. Oh yeah, FYI, I'm not married just yet and I'm still single. Ehehmm...it does sound a bit off when I mentioned it that way. But, screw that! Hahahahah..

There's a lot of hanky panky issues arose when it got closer to the wedding ceremony. I agree that people want to see the best in the ceremony but somehow, the whole intervention had spoiled the celebration. Too many cooks spoiled the porridge, as what the old proverbs says. From make up artists to catering selections...things are sometimes taken a bit too far. Well, I know for sure how to manage my wedding ceremony. Belah pompuan aku tak nak masuk campur la kan...

Okay, enough about the first story.

The next story is about one of our friends has divorced his wife due to pressure from the wife's family members. My friend was very upset to know when her wife's family members actively involved in ajaran sesat kind of Islamic teaching and later he decided to confront the 'Ayah Pin' of that so called religious study. The in-laws were not quite happy with the way he confronted the Ayah Pin and from what I heard, they persuaded the wife to ask for divorce or something like that. The victim is his baby age 3 months. I was totally shocked to know this news. My spontaneous reaction is like, "Astaga....what the fuck is going on??". Hahhahaa...it does sound contradictory. Alas, I feel sorry for him. He's a devout Muslim, a true gentleman and a nice friend for one could ever have and this shit is happening to him. My other spontaneous reaction to it was, "If it doesn't kill him...it will only make him stronger!", albeit I was thinking about something else.

He was happy almost a year ago and now a big shit has come to him. I pray for his struggle to secure a custodial right on his baby. Poor man!

Ehemmm...and why am I talking about this whole getting married, divorce ...yadi yadi yada??!!

Mysterious aihhh....(jangan biarkan misteri menyelubungi anda)

NB: I finally managed to have a dinner with my friend at TGIF and bought her a belated birthday present. A formal jacket for her to wear on her interview meeting this morning.