I just finished watching the movie "Definitely, Maybe". It's a romantic comedy. Yup, I'm a sucker for romantic comedy kinda movie. I guess this is a public fact about me. I enjoyed watching it and its storyline is okay.

What I like about this movie is about the relationship of a father and his daughter. How he shares story about himself and his love story which involves three different ladies. The kid is then will try to guess which one is her mother. And this involves quite a few words like threesome, penis, thrust and love. Okay, maybe it's not that suitable for young kids in our country but hey in America, it is totally a different ballgame altogether, ok?

It says that the love will find its way to people. I don't actually subscribe to that. Honestly at this point, I don't give much shit about it either. If it comes then it will come. If it's not, then it probably won't be happening to me in anytime soon. My sister claimed that allegedly I'm way too choosy and my choice always far superior than myself and I should take a look on the mirror of myself. Ouch, that hurts my feeling very much. To the core. Except that I chose not to say anything or else I would end up saying something foolish.

So I guess this movie is trying to tell that doesn't matter how long a person been out of love, the love will find its way back and eventually connects two people for one holy reason; LOVE. Yup, cliche as it sounds but that's what people need the most. Even the honorable teacher HAMKA said that the world spins because of love.

And then a friend asked me of why (some) men are not loyal and how they can flirt with other woman when they already have one. My reply is,"No offence but I think it equally be the same to women as well. Don't try to act holier than thou here!". I'm sick of this bullshit - always put the blame on men. Squarely on men. Both have an equal share on this issue.

Men are not saint and so are the women. Accept the fact that we are bound to do mistakes. When shit happens in love, the best way to do is just to move on albeit the pain is unbearable. Don't tell me on how to move on because that's what I'm doing right now. Surviving day by day on my stoic and lifeless emotion on the subject matter.

After all, some people do find their true love when tragedy occurs in their life. Then it will lift some relationship to higher plane and suddenly, there is love. I'm sure of that but I don't want to bet my life on it. Life must go on, comedy should stay and adventure must be experienced.

Life favors the fearless; mentally, physically and emotionally. Period.