Talking Bout Lonely

Oh well, finally I come to this topic. What prompt me to write such topic? The instinct tells me exactly what I suppose to write. Do not fear the criticism of other people, because this blog is ultimately mine (povided that I don't legally violate Blogger's contract).

Anyway, I just came home from a training in Trolak, Perak. The training was good, very meaningful and beneficial for me. The training also made my whole body aching like an old man in 80s. The muscles sore quite badly. However, the price for attending the training and the lesson received from the training - priceless.

While I was there too I came across with a questions, "What prompt you to get married?". I asked the question to two of my dear friends in agency. Each answered uniquely. I listened to them patiently as the time crept to 1 am. They both gave reasonable answers.

Later that night I pondered myself, why am I asking such question to people? I also asked them, "Do you feel at one point, you feel that your life is so lonely when you come home?". Surprisingly, none of them answered it positively. They said, it just happened. Once you set the date, everything falls down into the place perfectly. Not because they happened for no reason. They happened because they were planned to happen. It's about the word, 'wanting'.

A want. A burning desire to get or achieve something. When a want turns into 'the want', everything look simpler because obstacles are perceived as challenges, not turn offs. Magic happens when you believe that in order to have something, you need to do whatever it takes to make it happen. At the end, it happens in accordance to what you want it to happen.

This gives a cue - life itself moves into the direction we set earlier. Focus on the thing you want, insya Allah you will have it.